My boyfriend and i have been dating for about 6 months now. he was playing pro baseball but unfortunately he’s coming to the age where he realized it might be time to give it up. I told him i want him to be happy and make sure this is exactly what he wants. i asked my boyfriend what his plan is and he said he’s going to move to my state but first he’s going to save money before he does that. he’s currently 25 and has his associates degree. he told me he’s interested in barber stuff and honestly i’m not for it because i don’t think that makes money. i gave him the suggestion of going back to school and getting his bachelors and he didn’t like that idea. i asked him if he’s interested in anything else and he said he needs to try jobs out. i love my boyfriend very much and we have a great relationship but whenever we have an argument it’s always about job stuff. My parents know he’s interested in the barber stuff and i’m just tired that my parents are giving me a hard time saying that he doesn’t have a job and if he does the barber stuff we won’t be financially well off. it seems like my parents always have an opinion and they end up filling my head with their thoughts about the barber stuff. honestly i love my boyfriend and i just want him and i to be financially stable. i see myself marrying him and we have a great relationship but i’m just worried about the job aspect. any advice ? (oh he currently works with his dad in a plumbing company but it’s just to make some side cash & he doesn’t go everyday)
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It isn’t the career that is the issue but the lack of working. Don’t have him move in with you until he’s been employed by same job for 6 months that isn’t family.