How easy it is to get cheated on as a man?

21 comments

1. It’s 3 easy.

2. …as easy as if you’re anything else?

   Weird question is weird.

3. I mean, very easy. It’s not like you can actually do anything to prevent it. My girlfriend can walk up to me right now and say “I’m going to fuck someone else” and I can’t actually stop her.

   Even men who try to beat and confine their women get cheated on. It’s what they do; if a woman can’t hurt you physically or emotionally, she will get pregnant for someone else and make you raise it. Many such cases.

   You really just have to hope that your woman will not cheat on you.

4. I don’t know. I’ve never tried. Should I try to get cheated on?

5. in my experience its very possible. im not proud of this but in my experience its extremely easy for a lot of women to cheat on their partner if he would never know about it. ive had a sexual relationship with my highschool gf for a decade after we left HS. shes been with engaged and married her highschool sweetheart in all that time.

   we arent together anymore but for several years her and i were sexually active with each other. it was easy for us since her and i got along so well but understood we just arent dating material for each other.

   edit. also this isnt the first or only situationship ive had with a female friend.

6. Imagine someone had the nerve to cheat on Shakira, noone’s safe unfortunately

7. It drops down to *VERY EASY* when you’re in the military. Fuck, ask any military guy, like me, and we all got stories of how we got cheated on. I have like 3 stories.

8. This question is weird. It’s like asking, “How easy is it for your neighbor to break into your house?”

   Pretty easy, and I guess you can do things to make it more enticing, but whether or not they do it is up to them.

9. Just as easy as it is to get cheated on as a woman. If you have a partner that doesn’t respect you and is down to do something like that, that is all it takes.

10. Pretty easy, my wife is home alone all day, every day. I have zero interest in what is going on in her phone. If I am home, I never question where she is going or how long she is out. The opposite applies to how she treats me.

11. There’s no right or wrong answer, everyone’s unique and different

12. More common then anyone admitted before dna. Plenty of postmans kids out there.

13. It’s very easy because most men have huge egos and don’t think their woman will ever cheat.

14. Seeing as 71% of men get married…

    Yet only 50% pass on their genes…

    I’d say it’s pretty easy.

15. Without factoring in the individual woman’s integrity, it’s gotta be pretty easy. Halfway attractive women literally don’t have to work to get laid. So, yeah, super easy.

16. A hell of a lot easier for me to cheat on her XD… My work is a sausage fest, im not gay or bi, and i would have to find a woman and convince her to sleep with me… Probably all doable, but i assume my gf could find someone willing to have sex with her in the matter of minutes…

17. I’ve been cheated on by 3 ex’s. One was my first gf when I was 13 with one of my friends, the other was my second gf who was just a slut, and the third one reasoned that it didn’t count because it was a girl she did it with. I might have been cheated on by a more recent gf with her ex right before we broke up, but I’m not totally sure. But it was one of those situations where they suspiciously got right back together afterwards. That by itself means nothing, but said ex’s ex was around a lot too and I was too trusting.

    But I have shit taste in women and for some fucked up reason always go for the broken insecure chicks that party a lot.

18. Extremely easy. Women can find a new guy within an hour.

19. Being a cheating, narcissistic, selfish liar isn’t a gendered issue.

    What often happens is the cheatee ignored a range of red flags in the relationship, of dishonesty and immaturity. Oftentimes because they believed they could help or change an immature-dramatic person.

20. If she really wanted to cheat on you, extremely easy. All she’s gotta do is call up her girlfriend(s) and head out to the bar or club on a Friday night, and she can easily get some dick that night.

21. Laughably easy for any moderately attractive girl
    – call up the girls and go to a bar / club
    – download tinder
    – hit up the ex
    – hit up “don’t worry about him” guy
    – hit up the guy she rejected for you

    I don’t think guys realize how simple it is and there’s really nothing you can do about it