How important is foreplay for you men?

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1. In my late 30s, I don’t get rock hard just thinking about sex, so yeah… it’s nice to fool around for a bit to work up to the main event.

2. As I get older (mid/later 30’s) I appreciate it now more than I did when I was younger.

3. Doing it until she loses all control is the biggest turn on.

   Couple minutes of oral and I’m good to go

4. I love it personally. Super important to me because also making sure my partner is ready go is a big thing 100 %. I feel like some men dont care for it and it sucks because sometimes people get a bad experience from sex because of it.

5. It’s more important as you get older.

6. As I get older, it got more important.

7. As far as it being necessary, not so much, but that’s where a lot of the fun happens. Personally, I sometimes enjoy a lot of the foreplay stuff more than the sex. I know that once sex starts it’s just the countdown to the end, which is a horrible way to look at it but it’s just in the back of my head.

   EDIT: And this was just foreplay directed at me. I’m all for doing stuff to her and don’t view it as it not being needed. Though if she doesn’t want it then whatever.

8. It’s the best part about sex

   My husband is great with foreplay and successfully gives me those “nervous tingles” beforehand which make the act of sex itself more pleasurable

9. Extremely important.

10. Depends on the guy.

    I’m in my thirties and I get rock-hard in less than a second even if she’s dressed, because she’s totally my type. I can understand guys who are stuck with overweight/plain women having a hard time getting and maintaining a hard on, though, so I suppose foreplay helps them with getting hard, but I don’t need foreplay at all.

11. Means the difference between lasting 10 minutes and lasting 30 minutes. Sex without foreplay always makes the sex last longer.

12. Overall to a relationship, kind of important. But just to have and enjoy sex… not very. I get hard pretty easily and just the idea that we’re about to have sex is basically enough to get me ready. Like my partner (F) is up for a quicky, I’m good to go in 45 seconds, really.

    I’m in my late 40’s BTW.

13. In your teens, not important just say the word
    Thirties, it starts to need some handling
    Fifties, back to just say the word

14. Very important. It helps bring the sexual tension to a high level.

15. I love foreplay. Oh boy. My gf is very sexy, so I enjoy touching, kissing, licking and everything you consider a foreplay. It makes us both even more horny, so yeah… I enjoy our time together 😊

16. Depends on the guy. For me its not important at all I prefer not to do it

17. Difference between cooking ur food and eating raw.

18. Very important. I need a little bit to get me going, and I love feeling/seeing my wife get more excited too. I will say, I don’t need as much foreplay as my wife, but it’s still important.

19. I am single so this doesn’t effect me, i just realized though, does Foreplay have any connection with golfers shouting 4 all the time when on the green

20. Very. It’s a vital step.

21. I like it a lot. I also never get any.

22. I guess I’m the odd guy out… That being said I’ve only ever dated one woman…

    She doesn’t like foreplay… I’ve tried it…. Nope. She has very little patience for it.

    And I take modafinil… So it’s not a time length thing…. I can last for hours…

    So I’d say little to no importance.