I’m giving up porn and masterbating, has it helped anyone here? It’s weird the tip is very very sensitive but during sex it’s like not as tight as my hand so I guess I can’t cum

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  4. It’s not so much that it’s not as “tight” – though that’s part of it. It’s the porn itself. You’re desensitized. I’ve learned to stop watching it if I’m in a relationship. The sex is always much better. MUCH, MUCH better. Give it up, and watch what happens.

  6. Only get off when having sex. Orgasm is half mindset too.. you’re accustomed to only come when jerking it. So… get accustomed to only doing that when having sex. At least for a while

  7. I used to be a real freak as a teen, masturbating 10 times a day to various hentai doujin etc

    The first time I had sex I had struggles cooming, so I did NOFAP for a month and my pp returned to normal, now I cum in like 10 minutes

    So just stop and your pp will recover

  8. Like is this sex with random people are the same partner? and if it is the same partner how long have you been seeing them ? I know of some people sometimes can’t cum with a new partner because of nerves or it takes a while for there emotions to line up , worst case I’ve heard about was it took them a week to be able to cum.

  11. Buy a sex toy instead of using your hand. It’s better than your hand and won’t give you death grip syndrome.

    I did this when dating my now wife, I hated the feeling of sex after jacking off because it made me feel less sensitive. Did wonders since I could still jack off technically.

    I used a Tenga suction cup. It was pretty awesome.

  12. No worries! Natural! Stop jacking off, stop watching porn, stop/lower dose any anti depressants/anti anxiety, increase libido by vitamins and/or working out, eat sweet potatoes, eat oysters, and create intimate time with just kissing & cuddling.

    Don’t freak out! Once you get into a relax mindset you will jizz. This is easier said then done but during sex don’t think about finishing. Think about the moment and the feelings. Embrace the time. Don’t worry about the result!

    Be your Brother’s keeper; Love ya brother! Stay safe and have fun!

  17. I have the same exact problem, nofap/noporn didn’t help me, in fact after after i started jerking off again it took me more time than usual to come, which means it got harder not easier.

    I still can’t find a solution to this problem

  19. Had that issue. Spent two weeks banging practically all day to be able to finish. I also generally have high blood pressure that can make my dick go soft if I exert myself to much. You desensitized your dick. You’re on the right route. Try getting into foreplay a lot more to engage the rest of your body in your sex drive.

  20. Same issue here , not good to go cold turkey, but also not good to get rid of it completely. I personally would like my partner to send spicy photos, but not everyone’s partner is that confident. That would be one measure to slowly focus on your partner. That being said now I’m obsessed in my partner and is current to much. Just make sure when some of the content your viewing is causing issue and discuss with your partner

  21. My current bf was a chronic masturbator. What he’s done was he would not masturbate for days or even weeks. While it does still take a little longer to cum, if you haven’t masturbated in a week, it’ll feel a lot better.. so I guess my advice is try to slowly but surely masturbate less and less. I hope this helps😅

  25. I’ve done the 2 weeks no jerking off, to the point where a swift breeze would send me, still couldn’t get off, I’m going to therapy

  26. Dude. I’m 19 and had the same problem. NoFap and Noporn did it for me unironically. Good luck, mate.

  27. Yes it’s not that tight. What should you do you should not watch porn and wank. Try a break, for example, for a week and then have sex

  28. Switch to a memory wank. You need to be able to nut without digital stimulation. If you can harness this power you will be truly unstoppable.

  29. If reducing or taking a long break from masturbation doesn’t help. This could be psychological and if so, you might need to talk to a sex therapist.

  30. Completely cut out the masturbating and you’re golden. Same thing happened to me. Now I’ve got a kid.

  31. You will be surprise how not cumming for 4 week do to your sex life. (/s, but not really)

  32. IT sounds like you might have ‘Death-grips syndrome ‘. It takes a bit to recover from, but you can after a while while not masturbating.

  34. I had the same problem, it’s known as “delayed ejaculation”. In short, what you’re doing is the right move. Eventually you can reintroduce porn if you *really* want to, but ***only*** after you’re consistently cumming during sex.

    Of course, everybody’s different. I did some research into this because I was getting worried, and I guess the treatment depends on the cause. In general, nofap is the solution, but you can explore alternatives if that doesn’t work.

    For deathgrip, if 4+ weeks of nofap doesn’t help you, you can also consider “training” yourself to cum from less stimulus. e.g. use lots of lube and the lightest possible grip with no porn. Or even find a mild toy e.g. research the mildest fleshlight (haven’t tried this but I’m sure it’s a thing).

  35. When you do jerk off, go lightly and lots of lube. You have something called death grip syndrome

  36. you must have a plan to take off this but the first step is to not watch porn or nudes or any action that can make you start thinking about masturbating, avoid conversation or people who make you remember it if you have free time be sure to do sport or work on something .

    it may be hard the first time but in the long term you will be good

  37. Not wanking is important. I’d also recommend avoiding things like social media. It’s very easy to pivot from
    smoking instagram thots into porn.

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