I’m M 23, and recently downloaded a few dating apps. I’ve gotten a few offers for casual sex, but I started finding myself get a lot of anxiety from meeting someone new and having sex with them, leading to loss of libido and soft erections. Most of my prior sexual encounters were spontaneous hookups at parties, where I had alcohol to ease the tension or relationships in which i was 100% comfortable with the other person. I no longer drink alcohol for personal reasons however. The weird thing is that I don’t even really have much social anxiety in general, it seems this is only when it comes to having sex with ppl i dont know. Its honestly not even performance anxiety or anything, just the prospect of having sex. Has anyone else had similar issues? All advice is appreciated!
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Yes, and it sucks. Keep having and initiating sex and it will go away. Get some cialis if you need to. It will take away the anxiety related performance issues.
Just keep doing it man and you’ll thank me later.