So, I met a girl on tinder who is really lovely but the problem is that she’s very extroverted and likes partying and everything (nothing wrong with that) but I’m an introvert and not into the same lifestyle as her. I don’t think we would fit together at all as I’d feel uncomfortable in the places she likes going to (bars, nightclubs, etc.).
Normally, I’d just wait a couple days and the person would just get bored and stop talking to me but it’s been a week and she texts me everyday. Our conversation is not boring and I kinda enjoy talking to her but I feel guilty because I know really well our lifestyles aren’t compatible, so I don’t know how this relationship could go anywhere. She is really nice but I don’t know what to do in this situation. What would you do in my situation?
Note: We are not talking on Tinder anymore, we text on Snapchat, so I can’t just unmatch with her + she’s not mean or boring so if I say/do anything, I’d like to be respectful.
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you simply respectfully let her know that youre not interested.
I’m an introvert with an extrovert boyfriend and i think for me its a good thing cuz I used to literally stay home all day 😅 he definitely makes my boring days very fun cuz I’m used to being alone and home. Also hes the reason my social skills improved a bit. But if you want to stay introverted just tell her you’re not interested in a nice way and the reason why.