Hello,
After my first relationship back when i was 17, I haven’t been able to fall in love (or rather, haven’t felt those feelings that i did back in my first relationship)
I should probably start with the first relationship which was a very innocent one where we didn’t do much honestly but i did feel love for that person tho we did end up breaking up due to me going to study abroad and not wanting a long distance relationship and we ended things on good terms and i have been over it for a long time now.
Moving on i have had 5 other relationships all of them very short from 1 week to 2 months and at the start i am interested in the person but after a while i sort of realize that maybe i am not really in love with them after all and end up ending the relationships due to not wanting to hurt the person anymore if i dont feel the same way they feel about me.
This put me in a bit of a hole where i can’t get the same feeling i got back in my first relationship and i have never had crushes either. Is this a ”haven’t found the right person yet” moment or something deeper?
TL;DR: Can’t fall in love after my first relationship, what could be the reason?
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My dear, your life has just begun.
It’s probably not what you want to hear but find and do the things you love and want to do, along that road your person will come to you when you least expect it, it could even be the your ex again.
Trust the process✨