I’ve met some girls on bumble that I really enjoy talking to but they are like 30 miles away. how do I go about making this workout for dates and eventually a relationship?

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1. Are you asking about how people utilize transportation?

2. Bruh 30 miles is not far. What the heck?

3. What are you cemented in place? Research the transport system around you, plan ahead and perhaps meet in the middle if you have no transport. I travelled from England to Hungary once and again from England to Ireland. If the person is worth your time then distance is of little consequence in todays age. Go get em tiger and good luck!

4. Ask to go on a date in the middle

   Or wherever, 30 miles isn’t that far

5. Either drive or lower your search parameters

6. Drive to their houses.

7. C’mon bruh.

8. I have to drive 30 miles just to get to the store. Tf you talking about?

9. 30 miles is nothing if you have a decent car and can afford the petrol

10. Get a car.

11. 30 miles? I’ve driven twice that just to get a good burger on more than one occasion. Ask them to meet. It’s not likely they will but it’s worth a try

12. Don’t be a lazy hunter OP.

13. When I met my wife online, she was on the other side of the Atlantic.

14. 30 miles ain’t shit
    I drove 29.1 miles one way (twice daily) for work

15. Do you have a car? Or live is public transportation available for you to make that trip? If that’s a no for both then you’re kinda screwed, you can’t really walk 30 miles.

16. The Pretenders had a song about this situation.

17. It depends on location. 30 miles around LA is like 2 hours. 30 miles in Austin, TX is like 25-30 minutes.

    First date should definitely be closer to them. Makes them more comfortable. After that it all depends.

18. You buy a car?

19. Meet them halfway