Broke with my ex 7 months ago for very legitimate reasons and I know we are not right for each other but we were very physical and I can’t help but think about him every fucking day. I know I’m lonely. I miss that feeling of wanting to see someone and talk to them every day planning dates spending time together. I know I made the right choice but moving on and leaving him in the past without looking back is so hard. He was my first. I haven’t met anyone since we broke up and it sucks. Anyone else feel this way?
Tl;dr I broke up with him but I can’t let him go
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I’m 31 and I have never been with anyone. It is very hard sometimes, but you have to remind yourself just why you left. And try and find other relationships.
Welcome to the club where pets and the gym don’t completely fill the void. Heart ache sucks, but with time the hope of the pain going away outweighs the pain. Usually that’s when someone stumbles into your life, and you just have to have the guts to give it a shot.
I must confess that the point of indecision of jumping back in is the worst. If you can go out on first dates, then do it. The opposite seems to be a lonely spiral where that four letter “L” word becomes illusive and hard to wrap your tongue around.
Seems like you are desperate and lonely .. Seems like you only miss him because you don’t want to be alone .Maybe try dating apps ?
Takes time to move on. Sometimes over a year, or two. Just how it is. Occupy yourself and keep busy. Try to feel the loneliness with friends because you don’t need a relationship for that, and don’t start dating until you work through this
Go out and date! Or at least go fuck someone else. Getting over him may just be a matter of getting under someone else…js