she and I are very good friends, the last time she came to the country she wanted to meet me but out of shyness or embarrassment I told her that I was very busy working, I felt very bad, because she even left me a poloche at my house and still not I could see it. Any advice on how to keep the friendship alive? that is to say, if she writes to her she will answer me normally but I don’t know I feel like I would be bothering her.