Me and this girl met on tinder about 2 and a half weeks ago. We have talked pretty much all day everyday and we went out once. We both had a great time. We set up another date for sunday and I was wondering how to break the touch barrier? Should we kiss? Or hug? I heard if you wait too long you will end up in the friend zone. I am a very VERY shy person so this is all very nervous to me. Any advice is appreciated!!!!
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When I’m on a date, I usually break the touch barrier first by giving her a hug, and we sit close at a bar/restaurant…first date will usually always go good, and if so, then we will always depart with a nice kiss…on the first date.
Hug her when you greet her and ask how she feels about goodnight kisses on the second date at the end. Or greet her without a hug and hug at the end if you’re more comfortable with that. It’s never wrong to ask something like “are you a hugger?” before going for it either
It’s okay to touch her on the first date as long as you’ve gone out of your way to be as rude as possible and pretended that you weren’t interested in anything she said. If you fail to do those things though any attempt at touching will be” creep”
I’d just ask if they want to hold hands. Works for me.