The wife(28f) and I(28m) have been talking and want to experiment having a threesome with another woman.
The thing is we are clueless of how to find said person.
We both care about personality and general compatibility, so we want to find someone take them to some dates and then get the thing done.
Has anyone been in this situation? What worked for you? Dating apps? Going to gay clubs together?
Any recommendations is more than welcome
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Search the subreddit! Tinder might your best bet, but good luck lol
An unattached woman looking for a threesome with a couple is known as a unicorn within swinging circles because of how uncommon they are. They’re very difficult to find. I have had threesomes but that’s been with people I know. My wife and I are fortunate enough to have a group of sexually open friends who are happy to experiment. You can try dating apps but don’t be disheartened if you don’t find a match. DO NOT TRY TO PULL WOMEN IN GAY CLUBS. That’s just offensive.
You may have better luck hooking up with another couple. You’re much much more likely to find a couple looking to experiment than you are an individual woman.
Fetlife would be a great start.
Feeld is the best app for what you’re looking for. Everyone is encouraged to be extremely transparent & explicit in their wants & desires. I’ve met the majority of my friends/lovers (I’m solo polyam) on there. Highly recommend ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐