TLDR; we are long distance, we went to 3rd base the first night we met and I think this makes her feel guilty since we weren’t an official couple back then.
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I tried to initiate sex the last time we were together but she feels disgusted with me. We ended up fooling around ( she was enthusiastic, getting on top, talking dirty etc) and now blames me for it all. She tells me that she wants to take things slow and that me trying to do things made her uncomfortable.
Since my visit, I have felt she has been distant but if i say anything I feel like it will make the situation worse.
Can I realistically come back from this or should I just expect a break up?
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You can bounce back just take it slow, seems like she wants to be more emotionally invested before she gives it up.
Flowers / gifts would be counterproductive. Expect a breakup but just see what happens, people who do this push/pull stuff often sort themselves out if you do nothing. If she doesn’t get in touch for a week, move on.