I (18f) think a lot about sex, I watch porn etc, but when it comes to actually having it, it really scares me. Idk why this is the case. How do I get over this

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  1. Find someone to have sex with. It’s not that big of a deal when it finally happens, but you can really pysch yourself up stressing over it.

  2. Think about what goes through your head when you get sexy with someone. At stage are you freezing up and freaking out?

    Actually having sex introduces a lot of risk. There’s the risk the other person will judge your body, discomfort being naked in front of someone, risk of pregnancy and STIs. These are serious adult issues and it’s natural to see them as threats. Figure out what is making your freeze up.

  3. As I do not self pleasure as I prefer to be sensitive for male/female dynamics, I never have less than 6 orgasms during an evening. I have been told by men that they had women who preferred toys to a man. I only use toys with and for a man. But don’t use me as an example of what is right or wrong – I just know myself and what I want. You do you.

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