I’ve been active for about four years and have done a lot of things (piv, oral, anal..), but I have yet to give a handjob to completion and honestly don’t even think I’d know how to. I have put my hands on a penis and stroked it but it’s usually before I put it in me or in my mouth. I was curious to know if others are like me where they haven’t really focused on giving a handjob before. Do most guys even want a handjob to completion?
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I love them under the right circumstances. They are messy, so having a towel nearby is a good idea. And the ability to shower afterwards.
I think its so erotic when a girl lays beside you looking into your eyes as shes slowly jerking me to orgasm
So yes hand jobs are really important
I ask for handjobs lately combined with footjobs
i give my bf hand jobs from time to time
I would definatly prefer a blowjob but it does feel so sensual when a girl slowly wraps her fingers around my soft shaft and gently massages me to full arousal
Also combining the 2 is amazing when a girls between my legs slowly jerking me off and then sliding her lips down my shaft
I think its all in the moment
If a guy wanted a hj , would u do it?
Personally I don’t do them because I can never be as good as his hand at it.
Totally give my partner handjobs! I find it quite intimate now.
Honestly I’ve had the opposite experience— just started being semi active consensually (after a couple traumatic experiences) and I’ve yet to do anything other than handjobs for my partner so far. He finishes, I’m not sure if it’s technically his preference but since he knows i’m warming up to consensual stuff he’s been very nice about it.
I feel personally like it’s more intimate anyways, you can kiss them and look into their eyes closer when you’re doing it.
Literally just gave my SO one half an hour ago. 😄
I love giving handjobs and have made my man finish almost every time I’ve done it unless he chooses to finish another way (:
Yes they are still a thing. I have been known to do one on a partner til they cum..sometimes it’s really hot to do that instead of a BJ or PIV
yeah, usually as a part of foreplay but sometimes to finish especially if you are tired. only issue is not all guys like it the same way and they rarely tell you how they like it so sometimes it’s harder than just having sex or a blowjob
I personally would love the variety. Always doing the same thing every time can make the person think you aren’t as turned on by them. I say go for it.
I prefer a hand job with multiple edges over a BJ any day. I get some good lube and tease!