So my bf always eats me out first and I always cum. However, I think this makes me too sensitive to have an orgasm by the time he starts fucking me. I know that after an orgasm your clit becomes super sensitive. When I masturbate it’s always once and done, and after he makes me cum he needs to stop playing with it, or it’s uncomfortable. I didn’t think this would mess with my ability to cum vaginally until I realized that most of the time when he fucks me it just feels a bit too much. I think I want to tell him to not eat me out first so I can feel what his penis feels like pre-orgasm. I’m just really interested in trying to have a vaginal orgasm.
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You hit the nail on the head. My clitoris is the exact same way. I can have an orgasm and I can carry it for a while. But as soon as I let myself come down, it’s way too sensitive for quite some time.
I would suggest maybe only having him eat you out for a little while to build it up, but have him stop before you reach your climax. Then have him fuck you to orgasm. You’ve never felt anything like it 😉
Yes maybe have him eat you out afterwards instead or something so that you can experience him inside you for a while! I know for me, if I cum from playing with my clit first I can get super sensitive and any stimulation in the area is almost unbearable.
He could still eat you out first but just not all the way to orgasm…. Then fuck
Massage the clitoris while fucking if you aren’t already. Some can’t come with our stimulation there. Maybe take a break by doing something else, like have him finger you.