So my FWB (29M) has mentioned multiple times wanting to be dominated by me (24F). I’m super into it, really want to explore this with him, but don’t know where to start.
I obviously plan on talking about this with him more in depth, and seeing what he likes as we go along, but I’d really like some advice. Men who enjoy being dominated, can you specify things you like? I’m a little lost when it comes to this dynamic.
Traditionally, I’ve always taken on more of a sub role. I like a little pain, love being thrown around, and mainly love giving to my partner. How do I turn this into something we both enjoy?
Talking about it really turns me on, but I’m just a little lost on how to play it out. I’m really such a giver it feels a little foreign. There are times I tell him what to do very firmly, and I lightly choke his neck quite a bit, but that’s about it. I’m thinking about telling him exactly what I want him to do to me, riding his face, potentially edging him, etc. I have this fantasy of telling him not to move and grinding on his dick and not letting him touch me. A good place to start? Please help.
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Well u already have some good ideas. Do u what u feel, take ur pleasure in hand and do what feels good for u, use him for ur pleasure, that’s a good start.
If u want to explore more, u can look into tying him up, blind fold him and then ride his face. Keep him from touching u, edge him.
Do what u feels good for u, what turns u on to do with him.
If u wanna push it more then get into anal play. Put him on all fours and play with his asshole, tease him, put your finger in there, maybe two 🤷🏽
Having a guy bent over while u do as you wish with his behind is truly being dominant and in charge
Being a giver can work really good with being the dominant one! Tie him up and make him fully relax.