I used to be the one who believes in true love, and was a hopeless romantic. But after having my share of partners, I’m starting to think that I won’t ever find the one for me. I’m 22(F), my longest relationship only lasted 8 months. I had my fair share of online dating. And I’ve had trauma from my past relationships too (i’ve been stalked by an ex).
And now, I just feel like a relationship isn’t worth the hassle anymore. I feel like it’s okay being single forever. But I still want to have someone who loves me unconditionally.
I’m comfortable the way I am now, unlike before (I keep wanting to be in love). I wonder if I’ll ever make anymore time and energy to put in my romantic life.
Does anyone else feels this way? Will it go away?
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You are 22, little young to be going this way.
22 is very young and you still have heaps of time to find a great partner. I’m also 22F and I’ve found the most incredibly man this year and I really see a long term future with him. I never imagined I would be dating him (I’m from Australia and I met him while I was travelling New York). We’re temporarily flying around the world to see each other every few months until I officially move to New York next year (I’ve been wanting to move long before I met him).
Length of time also isn’t necessarily an indication of a great relationship. My first relationship prior to this one was for almost 4 years and it was extremely toxic in many ways.