Hello. I’ve been talking a lot about it, and looking at the various entries, I can see that 98% of men think that having an orgasm during bj is better, more intense, than the one in the vagina. I’ve known forever that you prefer oral etc, but is bj orgasm only better or all? the hand probably also gives better? what are the differences for you? why the vagina is losing to the mouth? it would seem to be more “built-up” than the mouth. but I see it doesn’t matter and the tongue and the choke win. Then why do you go into the vagina anyway? do not write to me about mental aspect, I am asking for a physically feeling.
so what technical flaws does the vagina have? is it too loose?
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Pls enlighten me where you got this 98% statistics from because I think it’s completely wrong.
“I can see that 98% of men think that having an orgasm during bj is better, more intense, than the one in the vagina.”
Where the hell did you come up with this statistic??? What you read about most often on r/sex is that guys have more difficulty orgasming from oral than they do from PIV.
vagina wins for me… unless anus is an option
I don’t prefer one over the other. They are both awesome.
Oral is more controlled and everything I experience there is more deliberately as she wants me to experience it. It can be incredibly intense or pretty gentle and calm, depending on what she wants it to be.
Being in her, it’s about experiencing her body doing a lot of things that are unconscious but oh so fascinating. And one of the things that makes it awesome is that no matter how many times I’m in there, it’s never *entirely* the same. It’s always a hint of a surprise how it will play out.
If you want to talk about preference, then my preference is pretty much to have what I started with. If it begins with a mouth, then I want that mouth til the end.
I prefer oral sex and orgasms for several reasons. However, there are several things that put them on even footing.To start, the mouth lining and the vaginal lining are the same tissue and the same temperature, so that’s a tie there. Blow job has tongue and suction, which makes it more intense. On the other side of that coin, squeezing the vaginal muscles during orgasm is also intense.
I know you said you didn’t want to hear about the mental aspect, but that is half the pleasure of a Blow job for me. During a Blow job, it’s all about me. I don’t have to focus on my rhythm or holding my position or anything. I just enjoy it and focus on the feeling! And knowing my partner only derives pleasure from pleasing me during that session is a big turn on too. So the mental aspect is what pushes it over to being the preferred method, at least in a selfish sense.
I hope that makes sense.
Where are you getting your stats?
I can tell you right now that I for sure don’t enjoy oral more than vaginal. It’s pretty rare for me to come via oral alone.
And I know a lot of guys who can’t even come from oral AT ALL.
The reality is there are a lot of men out there who have all types of preferences and there will be many different reasons for those preferences. So this post is not only inaccurate in the idea that 98% of anything have a specific sexual preferences, but it’s also pretty worthless to expect a general answer.
Oral for me is so infrequent that when does happen it’s amazing. Sex… depends on a whole host of things, if she makes me cum it’s way better.
What are you basing that assumption on? If someone said it to you, it’s between you and that person. No two people and relationships are the same
Tooter hole all day every day hands down the best place to orgasm. Nothing else can squanch on a cock the way a tooter hole do.