Her husband isn’t interested in sex at all so he has given her permission to sleep with others. Maybe this is the wrong sub but it’s about sex.
Sex with her is amazing. Her body is banging, I get dizzy just thinking of it. Think JLo in “the boy next door” We’ve been at it for 6 months and we meet 2-3 times a week. Often during her husband’s work time, I guess one if their terms is him not knowing when and where.
But lately I have been able to let her stay a bit longer, she lays in my arms and we talk or watch something. I even make us/ order us food. I convinced her to stay over one night when her husband was out of town. My dick was sore after that night. I started enjoying the aftermath as much as the sex if not more.
She never talks about her husband with me and I never ask. I should have kept it this was but stupid pathetic me asked her last time we were together and the way her face lit up with love and happiness thinking about him. I had not five minutes ago given her one of her best orgasms. I was so resentful lying there listening to her bullshit talk and just blurted why would you fucking love someone like your husband. He doesn’t appreciate you. She looked shocked but didn’t say anything. It became awkward afterwards and she left before the pizza had arrived.
I don’t think I’m going to see her again.
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Just wondering, did she set boundaries with you before it all started?
Some couples allow eachother to fuck around as long as they obey a set of rules. I assume they did and you might have crossed a line at some point.
My wife and I allow other males in our relationship, basically as a live sex toy but discussing our relationship with them is a no go.
If you’re a monogamous person, being with someone who is not monogamous can be threatening. There’s a lot of work and communication that should be done on both sides of the relationship to be secure and successful in a non-monogamous relationship. r/polyamory had lots of great resources in their FAQ.
In this situation, it’s going to be important to clarify what you each want from this relationship and what your partner’s boundaries with her husband are. Is she looking for a long term relationship that includes sex, or is she only looking for sex?
One thing to remember is that love is not divided. Non-monogamy doesn’t mean that a person’s partners are loved and valued less than a monogamous person. Each person does not have a finite amount of love to give and splits that love between people in their life (i.e. a parent with four children doesn’t love each child half as much as a parent with two children). Each person does, however, have a finite amount of time. Are you comfortable with the current arrangement or do you find yourself wanting more of her time and attention- wanting her to move in, wanting her to be in a monogamous relationship with you? If you’re desiring things from this relationship that she can’t give because she is married, then it may be time for you to move on to someone who can give you the relationship that you’re looking for.
bruh, idk what you expected to happen when you insulted her entire life and relationship after 6 months of bangin lol
you never cared about her feelings and why she loves him and you didnt respect her enough to keep your opinions to yourself 🤷🏻♀️
She sees you as nothing more than a play toy for her sexual needs and it’s obvious she still has a strong emotional connection to her husband.
Shame on you for thinking there was anything more than a physical connection with her. She has no interest in you in that way and now that you’ve gone and messed up a good thing by allowing your emotions to cloud the reality of the situation, Yeh I’d say she’ll seek out a new sexual partner who can keep their emotions under wraps.
You had a good arrangement and had to go fuck it up…..