Holy shit it hurts!!!like so much. I HATE HATE HATE it to have sex with my boyfriend but do it (more like tolerate it) just for his pleasure. The guy got 10 inch and a thick grith. I on the other hand am very tight. It fucking hurtssss soooooo bad when he enters. I grab the bedsheet so tight and press my teeth so hard to push through the pain. On the top of it he acts like an animal in bed and fucks me really hard and rough that it multiples the pain. He says he can’t enjoy sex without being too rough so i just let him do it to me and i tolerate the pain. Sex feels like exorcism to me. Does anyone else face the same situation? Can anyone just advice me how can i make things a bit better for me.
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Best advice is give up and break up. If he’s so selfish and self centred that he’s willing for you to suffer rather than diminish his enjoyment even fractionally then consider how he’ll react to any other situation where he needs to compromise
> 10 inches
Lol
> am very tight
No, you’re just unprepared and unaroused. Spend more time on foreplay so you can produce more cervical fluid. You could get microtears in your vaginal canal and develop some infections if there is too much dry friction. Sex shouldn’t be painful, the vagina is made up of elastic muscles
> He says he can’t enjoy sex without being too rough
Tell him to lay off the porn
> so i just let him do it to me and i tolerate the pain
Tell him it doesn’t feel good and you need him to spend more time making you relaxed. If he refuses or makes excuses, get out of there asap
Although I suggest a breakup as well. A guy has to be really dense to be unaware that you’re in pain during this, or he enjoys hurting you. Both are hopeless situations
Why are you acting as though sex is only for the man?? It’s about you and what you like too.
If you don’t enjoy rough sex, don’t suffer through it. Being compatible sexually means what you like ALIGNS. You and your needs matter, stop acting like they don’t.
He should be giving you as much gentle foreplsy as you need to make you cum, and get you wet and relaxed so he’ll fit comfortably.
Then he should be starting penetration SLOW so your body can open up to accommodate him.
THEN he can get faster/harder but only if it also feels good for you too.
You’re not a sex doll, you’re a human being. You should also experience joy and pleasure during sex.
Honestly your boyfriend sucks. He knows he’s large, and any mindful lover will make sure their partner is properly aroused and lubricated; he’s doing neither. Not to go too heavy here, but the sex you’re having isn’t consensual and he’s apparently already made it clear that he’s not willing to make things better for you. Sex should be pleasureable and you’re not even in the neutral zone, you’re in pain. I’m pissed for you. If you want to communicate how painful it is for you and gauge how he responds, you can, but real talk you don’t ever have to put up with this shit.