I recently just got in a FWB situation. We haven’t done anything yet. But we both have never been in one before. What are some rules and boundaries that are needed for this to be successful?

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  2. If you start catching feelings stop. That’s a big one. Like at that point one person is getting attached while the other has no intention at all. Figure out whether it is exclusive FWB or not. If not must use protection though you should be using protection already for your own sake. And ultimately set the rules of engagement for when your doing the dirty. Some people have hard boundaries like, for example choking or slapping. Figure out what they don’t like and things should go smoothly

  3. That’s just on you two to decide.

    I personally avoid anything relationship-like. So, my “rules” are – no cuddling, going out together, meeting friends or relatives etc. I would also ask them to be discreet, like, not going around telling everyone about our deal. I wouldn’t care to know about whether or not they are seeing with others, but i would expect them to tell me if they are getting into something serious with another person (cuz i don’t want to be seeing with some taken guy, ofc).There are other things for which i’m not very strict about, so i may change it if a guy rly wants it/finds it important/feels more comfortable..or whatever. Seeing echother usually happens once or twice a week..sometimes less frequent and it’s not like i have some set dates of the week..we just make plans as we go, when we are both free. Ofc, i would expect a person to be decent/act friendly, so i wouldn’t tolerate drama, anything rude, disrespectful, manipulative etc..such things would break the deal but i luckily didn’t have such issues. If either person develops feelings, then it would be the right thing to be open about it and leave the situation.

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