So I’ve literally had to use a alt account because I’m quite frankly embarrassed that I’m even asking this. But I need a bit of help.
Me and my girlfriend are pretty shy, we like each other a hell of a lot and we talk about it a lot as well. We are happy, but I haven’t kissed her on the lips yet, because I don’t know how.
We’ve spoken about our past experiences and she said she hasn’t had her first kiss yet, and also said that she wants it to be PERFECT. This seriously put me off because I don’t know what that means, wdym perfect? Does it have to be in front of the fucking sunset on the edge of a hill on a summers day? XD
I have had many moments where I’ve wanted to kiss her but got put off by nerves, I also noticed she will go silent and smile at me whilst staring at me in the eyes, but then she’ll look away again.
I just don’t know when or how to do it.
Do I just lean in when we lock eyes for a bit?
Do I ask her if we can kiss?
Does it have to be at a really special moment or can it be when I’m saying goodbye to her after a day out?
I am new to this whole relationship stuff so yeah any advice would be much appreciated
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Find the right moment and grab her passionately, close your eyes, and just go for it. Kiss her. Surprise her.
Asking her for a kiss takes the fun of the experience imo lol..
You got this bud!
take her on a romantic date and kiss her afterwards (: