How would you phrase a boundary of interacting with someone in your social circle that knows you’re in a closed/monogamous relationship but still sends you “did you get home safe?” texts, songs to listen to, etc.? Feels weird but also weird to address.

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  1. I wouldn’t consider the things you mentioned flirting, so I wouldn’t be concerned about them. That just sounds like a normal friendship to me unless there’s something more you haven’t mentioned.

  2. It depends on the situation for me. For example I have a coworker who does this but it has been discussed and I am fully confident that there is no underlying meaning (and if there is, he knows it’s not getting him anywhere)

  3. I wouldn’t consider what you’re describing flirting. That’s just a common courtesy and safety precaution in my friend group. As for sending songs, that’s another thing my friends and I bond over.

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