I’m a woman extremely aroused by facefucking. I’m overcoming some trauma so I’m absolutely new to oral sex but I’m sexually active for a rather long time. We’re taking it slow so I have time to experiment and communicate but I’d like to hear some tips.
Anyway, what do I do? I’ve always thought that giving a head is mostly about sucking. But whenever I watch videos with rough oral sex, I see that the woman is keeping her mouth open much wider.
So what exactly man is feeling in that moment? Is it good even though he doesn’t feel “pressure” on his whole dick?
If you have your mouth wide open, what about teeth? If he fuck your face from different angle, isn’t he touching your teeth?
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I’ll report and block every private message after this, PLEASE STOP DOING THAT IT’S CREEPY.
EDIT: I’m blocking every person who suddenly starts following me too 🙂
Just consider a standard blowjob only he is moving his penis instead of you moving your head. Continue applying suction and using your tongue on his shaft.
I’ve (F) suggested wanting to try face fucking with my partner and he was surprisingly not that interested. But I guess it makes sense. I think the wide open mouthed facefucking is just for the visual/domination aspect, not because it feels the best. There is the bigger risk of teeth scraping and you’re not really getting any suction. Slower facefucking allows for keeping your mouth in normal BJ position.
Its only performance. Porn and real life are much different. I as guy find slow much more pleasant because when you do it rough, your reflex is to open mouth to breath so you can’t feel anything until you hit throat. But slow with lips including makes you feel lips from tip to bottom of penis.
To answer your question, with porn, the guy is literally fucking the throat space of his partner. Depending on how deep your mouth goes and how long he is, this may not be happening for you, but I think some positions allow for it better than others.
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I think as your experimenting with rough to just keep communicating with your partner what you did and didn’t like about it and vica versa. I love to get throat fucked to, for me I enjoy the submission and the feeling of deepthroating my partner.
Tip wise be mindful of your lips covering your teeth. Depending on how rough you and your partner eventually get have a towel on hand to wipe up any mess. Use you tounge on the head while it passes by. Also breathe through your nose, that’s a big one to learn, especially if you are wanting to learn to take it rough.
Again though, the biggest thing is communication. I had a FWB that he would come over and throat fuck me weekly. It might seem unsexy at first, but in the time between meetings we talked about what we liked and didn’t like and what else we wanted to try and that enhanced the experience more than anything else. Have fun!
Relax, take it easy and just do what feels right. There is no wrong or right away. IGNORE the videos… they are made to shock people. THEY. ARE. NOT. LIKE. REAL. LIFE.
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I will say that again incase it did not sync in. THEY. ARE. NOT. LIKE. REAL. LIFE.
The only thing to think about it, is to pull back your teeth. Unless he likes it off course.
The mouth wide open is just a porn thing. The position we use is she lays on her back with her head hanging off the bed. I thrust in and out while using a toy on her and it’s great fun
Face fucking is about giving control over to your man. The way I do it is lay on my back with my partner on top in a 69 position, or with my head hanging off the side of the bed and him standing. He controls the depth and speed. It feels good for him because he is fucking my throat, which is pretty tight. It’s basically like PIV sex except in your throat instead of vagina.
You keep sucking.
Simple answer is you do nothing. Let him take charge, and try to keep your mouth tight enough that he feels but open enough that he can slide in an out easily.
If you want to take things to the next level, find out what turns him on while face fucking. Is it you making gagging noises? Is it you rolling your eyes back from took much dick? Is it you acting/or really depending on his size struggling to handle his cock?
Do those things to take the facefucking to the next level.
You can also change your body language. For example if he gets a kick out of you barely being able to handle his “size”, do things that are not your safety sign to make it seem you are struggling. Such as tapping the floor with both hands, arching your back, grabbing your breasts, making an o face etc.
Show your enthusiasm, for example, when he stops, wrap your hands around his ass and bury your mouth in his cock, making him feel you can’t get enough of him.
Hope this helps
It still feels good because he goes deeper into the throat which is tighter and then when you gag, that contracts, especially around the head of the penis that is far more sensitive.
The most comfortable angle for me is laying on my back with my head hanging off the edge. That allows the deepest penetration. Teeth aren’t usually too involved so that’s not an issue. I wrap my arms around his thighs and my knees are usually up. You can ‘tap out’ when/if it gets too much. I have a towel under my head in case of vomit haha.
Penis owner here. I would say, for the most part, you don’t really do anything other than just let there. You can put your hands on his thighs so you can stop him if you need. Be careful about you teeth scraping him.