About a year ago, my boyfriend got on top of me while I was sleeping and used my breasts to masturbate. Waking up from a dead sleep to someone climbing onto me was traumatizing and he knew that immediately and was apologetic and said it will never happen again. Fast forward to now, and I’ve woken up to him standing over me masturbating several times in the past couple months. He knows I hate it and it scares me and I’ve told him to stop. He says he’ll stop and then just keeps doing it. Last night i woke up to him doing it again and I’m at my wits end and can’t even feel safe to sleep in my own home. I don’t even want to think about how much he’s done this without waking me up. I don’t know what to do, I work from home and have nowhere to go. Can’t afford to move out immediately. I’m considering making a bed in the walk in closet and locking it so I can sleep until I can figure something else out, but I shouldn’t have to do that. I think he needs some therapy but I can’t force him to talk to someone. How can I get it through to him how serious this is?
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You leave.
He doesn’t give a shit about you and just wants to get off.
If he can’t respect boundaries, then you all should not date.
He repeatedly sexually assaulted you, even when you expressly told him you’re uncomfortable. Leave him, for your own safety!
If you’re very brave, you can try to gather evidence of it so you could more easily get a restraining order, but that’s not s priority
>How can I get it through to him how serious this is?
It’s abuse, plain and simple. And almost certainly criminal. If he’s had a year to stop, I seriously doubt he will at this point. Police and a PFA might be in order, make him leave.
that’s practically rape. and very creepy. leave cuz if he ever stops that he’ll go onto sumn else, probly worse
He sexually assaulted you. You should leave ad quickly as you can.
go to your friends house 3 hours away~ you work from home.
This guys is unreasonably horny. Can’t even let his woman sleep wtf lol