(Repost) Sometimes I think about dating women. Am I missing out? Should I switch to being bisexual or try being a lesbian? It’s been years of internal strife that guys are stereotypically a match instead of girls. I do have crushes on girls and never followed through.
I only dated one guy in my life. We met on a dating app. I’m intimidated by having sex with a woman and would miss having sex with penis sometimes. I could try having sex with a strap on. I wonder how lesbian dating or bisexual dating differs on dating apps since I only dated one guy.
Maybe I should write bi-sexual in my next dating profile.
It would be nice to try having sex that is beyond missionary and cowgirl. Those two positions were popular in my previous relationship. I watch a lot of porn, read smut/erotica, and educate myself with sex/LGBTQ experts online.
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There’s a lot of research that shows women can be very flexible in their sexual orientations so experiment with whatever you want.
I thought it wasn’t a choice
I have some girlfriends who identify as bi, but only sexually. They don’t want to date/marry/etc a female but do enjoy women sexually. They have husbands for all the relationship stuff. Maybe a situation like that?
Maybe consider being a third in a throuple. Then you get the best of both worlds. Be sure to find a couple who is super open about themselves and their relationship.