My boyfriend M(29) and I F(26) have been together seven years. He cheated on me twice during this time or used me to cheat.
Our relationship has been less than stellar with him watching porn during BJs and us not having sex. It tore down my self worth.
Yesterday I checked his followers and he’s following a girl he cheated on me with. Her account is private so she had to accept him but she didn’t follow him back. According to Facebook which she’s active on she’s in a relationship.
He’s also been recently following girls with a lot of tattoos. I have no tattoos. This girl has tons and now he’s following her again.
Should I confront him? Does it sound like he’s thinking of her and wants to get with her again? What should I say?
TL;DR: bf cheated on me and we got back together. This happened two years ago. He recently (yesterday) started following the girl he cheated with on social media. She didn’t follow back and her account is private
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I would just end the relationship then confront him about it. Tell him what you saw and that’s a deal breaker and you are moving on. Why waste your time being his back up plan? Why stay with someone at the cost of your self-respect whom you don’t trust and rightfully so?
Better question: why does he deserve another chance?
That’s because he wants to fuck her again.