How would you respond if your partner said “I feel like my face is ugly”?

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1. If my partner said “I feel like my face is ugly,” I would respond by asking why they feel that way. I would try to listen without judgement and see if there is anything I can do to help them feel better about themselves.

2. I’d feel her face and say “feels good to me!”

3. You’re fishing for reassurance which might be okay in low ammounts but if you’re constantly making these kinds of comments I’m both gonna get bored and find this an unattractive quality.

4. “that’s your problem, because your face is hot to me”. If people feel unattractive, it’s on them to change their own mindset, not you. So just be honest

5. You look great to me (she does)

6. Mock take offence and say “Wtf do you think of me? you think I’d be dating an ugly person?!?!?! how very dare you!”

7. I’d say: “Why?”

   I would then listen to her explain why and we would go from there.

8. “Oh, OK.”

9. I know it is

10. The first time or two I’d probably go all “wat.”

    If it becomes a chronic thing I’d probably start talking to her about therapy.

11. “well the best you could do is me, so yeah.”

12. “Yeah, you should probably get plastic surgery”

    Jk, I likely wouldn’t date someone so self-conscious/who needs repeated validation

13. “You think if I was half as amazing of a man as you say I am that I’d marry an ugly woman?”

    So, she either gets to be 1) wrong about me and right about herself or 2) right about me and thus wrong about herself.

14. “I don’t fuck ugly.” and proceed with giving her the ff of a lifetime.

15. Say this… “listen here bish. I don’t date ugly chicks. And you’re no exception.”

16. I disagree.

17. Nut on their face