This are my own instinct this as a lady, first off I’d recommend learning more about MEN I’m aware men are made differently when it comes to sex drive (supposedly). Second sex is a way that feel connected to you.. third you should be having as much as the person with the higher sex drive wants it or else your partner could feel extremely unwanted and undisired”
The part where you should have sex as much as a man wants isn’t really fair either. That’s borderline un consented sex to only please one person in relationship. No I’m not saying sex isn’t pleasurable, I’m saying it’s not pleasurable to constantly have sex and feel pressured to have sex in fear that your partner won’t feel wanted or unhappy and leave kinda fucked
So I’ll like to hear your own point of view also my fellow subreddit
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Not every man is the same. To make a blanket statement that men are made different only perpetuates a stereotype that is harmful for all genders.
And absolutely no one should be required to have sex as much as their partner wants to. If you don’t want to have sex, then you don’t have to. Both men and women can have an expectation that their partner should have sex at a rate that matches their libido. But that’s not a healthy expectation.
Edit: also, doing things to avoid hurting your partner’s feelings is called codependency and it is not healthy.