So I asked this girl I’ve been seeing for about a month now what she sees us as or what she thinks is going to happen between us. She said she sees us as close friends and that she needs time before she for herself. Should I keep hanging out with her and talking to her for a chance to date her or move on?
I really like this girl alot and I don’t wanna just walk away
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Be clear about what you want. Asking dodgy questions like that leaves your intentions up to her to decipher. State your intention to date and not be just friends. If she’s not interested, time to move on. Don’t give boyfriend benefits to someone that doesn’t want you.
Move on, i had a girl tell me “i need time”, “i dont know yet” for over a year. After that she literally ghosted me for another dude. If she’s interested she’s interested. If she’s indecisive means shes currently not interested and she is probably just using you as a backup.
That one year + of giving time for the girl was the biggest waste of time and money in my life.
Dont persue someone not worth pursuing. If she rejected you imo its not worth persuing. You shot your shot, she said no, not really. If you keep initiating that comes off as desperate