I (19 F) have been getting added on Snap A LOT lately. I don’t mind, of course. I love the possiblity of making a new friend. But it seems that a lot of the adds I get are super horny guys.
– They ask for nudes, I decline, they beg and get upset when I continue to say no.
– They ask if I wanna see their d*CK, I say no, they call be a bitch and a tease.
– They straight up send them without asking, I tell them I’m not interested, they keep sending.
– They repeatedly try and call me, I ignore, they say “how can I know you’re real?” And continue.
In the end, I end up blocking them, but I don’t understand why everyone is so freaking horny. I hardly use Snap and I’m thinking about deleting it at this point. (I’m asexual if that matters) Has everyone always been like this and I just haven’t noticed?
Like, I just wanna have a normal conversation. Talk about interests and possibly gain a new friend. But it’s just so frustrating.
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i think no matter what you’re going to find an imbalance of horny guys and not horny girls, whoever you are. Guys just don’t care and want to get off it seems.
Guy here. Those dudes are just assholes looking for sex. They think with their dicks and not their brains, and have no shame asking for nudes or even sending one. The anonymity of the internet lets them hide their faces.
At this point, I’ve stopped accepting people on snap I don’t know. It’s not worth the hassle of dealing with people soliciting nudes or asking if I want to see them.
I rarely use snap or even Kik for that matter.
I never used snap but it seems that most guys don’t use it the way you want to use it. Probably better delete it
In may cases people project their wants, likes and kinks onto others. Everyone tries to find their match. So what makes the perfect match gets projected onto newfound apparently “willing people” without asking before. On top of it this willingness is often assumed by postings done, even though it was never meant in such a way.
As a very kinky person myself, i caught myself with that, when some responses or talks of the people had hints of them maybe being kinky – yet it was not meant in such a way. Or in other words, you look for signs that you interpret in your favor, without that other person actually being into that.
Isn’t horny stuff what snap is for? I was never really into it but I feel like snap has been reduced to an app mainly for the exchange of nudes. It’s literally the only thing I’ve ever done on there.
Either way, unfortunately when meeting male strangers online, there’s a high likelihood of receiving unsolicited nudes or advances. You just gotta set hard boundaries and find the spaces that aren’t very sexually charged.