I’m so embarrassed I don’t even want to leave my room. It was completely quiet up here (so I thought) so I decided to have a little fun and I got kind of loud. Turns out my father is still very much in his room. Next room over.
I’m mortified. Idk what to do, I don’t want to leave my room now. I’m not ashamed of my needs but it’s embarrassing that he probably heard me. Just feels like a boundary was violated…
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It happens. No need to be ashamed.
Just act like your walls are made of concrete and no one heard you. Perhaps he was taking a nap.
It’s kind of your dad’s job, if he heard anything, to start making some noise himself so that you’ll realize he’s there.
I’ve been there before! I’m so sorry. Just how loud were you getting?
My daughter (25F) is staying with us right now. If I heard her, I would just walk away and never bring it up. What she does is her business and I would never dream of embarrassing her by commenting on it. I would simply act like it never happened.
That being said, her bedroom is directly beneath ours and I would be shocked if she has never heard us.
I’ve had my mom walk in on me on more than one occasion 🙈 but parents (usually) understand that it’s a natural thing, and will just leave you to it ☺️ I wouldn’t worry about a thing, dear 🤗
I can hear my mom all the time. She gets super loud !!
Unless you have a really close relationship that is open in this area, he will never say anything or even look at you in a way to suggest that he knows. I have grown children. I get it.
You’re an adult, and virtually every adult masturbates. Just be more careful next time out of politeness, but you did nothing wrong.
My mother walked in on me when I was about 13.
We never mentioned it.
I remember coming down to visit my parents. I stayed there for a week. Everyone is gone during the day & at school. So I decided to masturbate in the living room. I found a video to watch and casted it to the tv. Anyways I cum and less than a minute later my sister walks into the living room from her bedroom!! Luckily for me I wasn’t loud but I had I masturbated longer or she came out sooner I would’ve been caught. Still when you’re masturbating especially thinking you’re alone your awareness isn’t it’s best
I wouldn’t worry about it. Your parents or sexual individuals as well… Or you wouldn’t exist. I don’t know the parents necessarily want to contemplate their children being sexual beings, but deep down they know that they are and probably are glad that you have normal desires.
Meh, we all whack off…..
Is that what I heard? – Your neighbor 4 houses down
Counting the small joys of living alone 😃