well i lost my virginity last year .when i came to college i had a boyfriend and we decided to do it after a month but it was so hurtful and i was just doing it bcs it made me feel closer to him .
it’s really weird but i still feel the pain everytime i want put something in my vagina.
He actually broke up with me after we had sex couple of times .
I was hurting so much i mean emotionally.
Now I’m dating for a month with someone and we still haven’t had sex everytime i think about it it turns me off.
Before i lose my virginity i had the highest libdo I needed to masturbate 3 times a day but now idk what’s wrong me i think my bf is gonna break up with me cz i’m keep making excuses
So what should i do?
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I had a gf when i was 23, she had a similar experience (i was not her first) turns out her hyman was rather thick and recieved a bit of added damage her first time, that took some time to heal, I was too big and actual intercourse was a no go because i simply tore the scar again. Her poor vag did come right eventually but it took a year and a half. Finding bf who understands/cares will be a big help, you can still build a relationship without intercourse just give yourself the time you need and dont give yourself up just to please another…… he can go wank off if it comes to that
Sorry, long winded. One can be put off for a long time over a bad experience. Guys and Girls alike