Men who don’t like/don’t think about cuddling, why?

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1. After sex? I’m tired. I did all the work.

2. I like my hands to be free/being able to move or roll over as I please

3. Okay okay but I also mean post bedroom fun and not necessarily all night, like on a cold crisp morning why not grab your partner instead of an extra blanket…

4. I like my physical space. I don’t like breathing into a person’s face or them breathing into mine. I like to move around and do stuff. If I’m cuddling, then I get antsy and just want to get up and move around. If I’m going to bed, then I want you to leave me alone so I can go to sleep.

5. ADHD. Unless we’re cuddling while watching a movie or something, after like 5-10 minutes I’m bored.

6. I get hot and body parts go numb. It’s nice, but not sustainable.

7. I get too hot.

8. I’m currently single, so there’s no point in thinking about cuddling right now. At least with thinking about sex, there’s masturbation. There’s no equivalent to masturbation when it comes to cuddling. You either have a person to do it with or you don’t.

9. I just don’t like people touching me. I tolerate it from certain people but I’m still not a fan.