The first time i saw this girl was a fairly impulsive meeting at the pub where she already was with her two friends, which she insisted i come to, where if i’m honest i felt kind of sidelined as she wasn’t even turned to face me the whole evening and whenever she did talk to me it would be a side glance. She said she had fun and wanted to see me again which i’m doing tonight but again her friends are going to be there so i’m worried it’s going to be the same again.
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I’d utter a guess that she might not see these are “Dates”. This is textbook friendzone.
Unless it is some cultural thing – is she Asian?
Depends if I find her friends annoying. If they’re ok I’d go again hang a little. Then I think you ask her out, like just the two of you. If i can’t get into an actual date at that point I move on.
Sounds like she considers you a friend, and hang together in a friend group.
They’re not dates lmao
Sounds like she doesn’t think these are dates.
Get to know her friends. Keep an eye out for other girls at the place and if your waitress is attractive.
Don’t think of this as dating the girl, because she doesn’t seem to think of it that way.