me and my gf are in our teens and we’re almost reaching our one year anniversary. We have had sex a lot of times but not once have I been able to make her cum. Shes faked an orgasm before and about 2 months back we had a talk and she told me that Ive never made her orgasm. Since then ive tried doing so much to help her cum and I havent been able to. are there any tips I feel like ill never be able to make her finish.
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Can she orgasm on her own?
If so, ask her to show you how she masturbates and then try to mimic that.
If not, then it’s unrealistic to expect that you’d be able to bring her to orgasm. If orgasming is important to her, she should explore her body and figure out what gets her there.
We can’t give you exact tips because every woman is different. You need to talk to her about what she likes. Ask her to guide you and show you.
Sorry if I’m belaboring the obvious, but you’re doing more than PIV, right? Because not being able to cum from PIV is super common.
Oral usually works well.
Remember that it can take a lot longer for a girl to cum than a guy, especially if its the first time she’s orgasming with/by another person.
You just gotta keep at it, even if it gets tiring or boring for you if you really wanna achieve it.
She can also start herself off or finish herself off with you there/ inside her.
But ultimately, dont stress too much about it. And she shouldn’t either. Itll happen when it happens, it shouldn’t be the thought you have going into sex every time.
Don’t usually comment on posts like this but more than half of women can’t orgasm from just penetration. Clitoral stimulation is the key either manually or orally. Talk to her about it and experiment with it. Have fun exploring the different ways to get her off. Believe me son she will appreciate it
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