So i (24m) feel like this really isnt the typical post on here but i feel like most of the people that ive talked about it like to have sex to music. Personally i cannot for the life of me seem to ever enjoy it because im not a playlist maker( for some reason whenever i try to make one i cannot think of a single song) and when i put on random music it always seems to distract me/ turn me off, so then i jump to change the song mid stroke and it really seems to kill the mood. Anyone else with me on this? Any playlists or albums one might recommend to try out?
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Apple has a playlist called “pillow talk” that I’ll use sometimes. I also don’t typically listen to music during sex though
IMO making your own playlist is the only way to go because other people’s playlists are always gonna include at least a song or two that you don’t find sexy for whatever reason.
You could go through your library of songs and pick sexy ones as you go, or you could look up suggestions of sexy songs online, listen to them, and add the ones you like to your playlist.
Alternatively you could pick one artist whose music is consistently sexy to you (I like Alina Baraz, Her’s, and the Bill Evans Trio, for example) and just shuffle their discography or play one of their albums.
I find any new music distracting, definitely. I would never listen to a playlist that I didn’t know already, but my favourite albums featuring softer vocals are almost always playing during sex.
Some of my best orgasms combine a drink/smoke and a steady beat that I sort of “ride” along as I’m orgasming. Has definitely lengthened my orgasms too.
Some of the songs you can find to do it to
Rihanna – skin
Begging for thread – Banks
Don’t hold the wall – Justin Timberlake
Eyes on Fire – Blue Foundation
Tempt you – Nothing but Thieves
Hard to Find – Khushi
Body – Torii Wolf