Roughly 3 years ago, I met this girl at a party. I was 17 at time time, and she was 15-16. We became pen pals because she was a little young to date at the time. We would check up on each other about how our days were going, and occasionally bring up topics about our lives. I got busy with starting a career right after high school, and we basically ghosted each other.
I’m 20 now, and after 2 years since talking to each other, she (18 now) calls me on the phone to ask me very personal questions such as “did you like me”, “would you kiss me”, “have you ever had sex”. I thought this was very strange for someone to ask after holding off from chatting for 2 years. Obviously, something isn’t right in her alley now.
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Note: I will not give out my or her name.
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Well did she tell you why she’s asking? Obviously she’s trying to gauge your experience over the last two years. It could be that she’s interested, or it could be that she just wants answers for why you wouldn’t ask her out.
>Note: I will not give out my or her name.
You can just use fake names.
18F, let’s call her Pedantic. Something in her life has rocked her confidence (dumped by guy she’s seeing/sleeping with?) and now she reaching out to randoms in her past life (not just you) to see if she was ever desirable to you, even though your opinions have nothing to do with the other guy’s opinion of Pedantic.
>Obviously, something isn’t right in her alley now.
Obviously. If you want to humor her, you can. But really you should have better things to do than to answer her personal survey monkey.
Was she drunk?