My friend who kind of looks like Hoest from Taake, toned abs, auburn hair, etc, has been sending me unwittingly erotic selfies of himself enjoying nature with his dog. He is not a homosexual but how can I convince him he just hasn’t been with the right person yet? I mean, I would consider myself straight as well, with some exceptions…. lol. I know he likes black metal and I can maybe pass my face as young Varg. How can I approach him without scaring him off? If he quit sending me pics I’d die
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Well you shouldn’t be trying to convince someone they have a different sexual orientation. Whether it’s true or not, that’s for them to figure out and you should just stick with what they have communicated.
Also, what makes the selfies erotic? It’s possible you’re reading more into his pictures than what he intended.
Honestly, as a straight man, I have lesbian friends that sometimes send naughty pics of themselves in our group chats. I enjoy them, but I know that since they are lesbian that
1. there’s no chance of us being together and
2. they are my friends so I put me being a good friend over anything sexual I might be feeling
So I keep my thoughts to myself and just enjoy the pics whenever they feel like sharing them.
So my question to you is what is more important: your friendship with him or you sharing your feelings (which he probably will reject since he’s straight and could end your friendship)?
Either choice is ok, but you have to be clear on what the priority is.