This is so stupid and probably obvious to everyone else. Dildos, no matter how small, hurt me and are difficult to insert! Lube helps but the dildo itself is just made of such rough, hard material that it isn’t super satisfying. Nothing like sex of course.
I have condoms that I’ve been saving just in case I get a boyfriend. Tonight I decided that day is far away. I’m chronically single so might as well try them.
That condom changed the trajectory of my masturbation habits forever. It didn’t hurt one bit. 10/10 highly recommend doing!
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I find dildos to actually be quite painful myself! I don’t use dildos very often if ever but my favourite has been glass dildos if you have never tried one. I know these might sound more painful but a smooth glass dildo with no bumps or ridges or funny stuff on it just smooth/solid design I felt less painful ! I also always use condoms whenever I am using a dildo. I’m glad it’s helped you !
> the dildo itself is just made of such rough, hard material
Cheap dildos are made with cheap silicone mixes or even unsafe and porous materials, and they can be extra solid and unrealistic. Consider purchasing a dual density dildo, and make sure it’s *only* made of 100% liquid silicone. A gentle foaming toy cleanser can extend the life of sex toys, especially silicone ones
Using a condom doesn’t hurt, though
If you want a decent “dildo” I’d suggest going on some trans (ftm) online stores and having a look at their “play” dicks… majority of them are soft medical silicone.. some every feel real.. a hell of a lot softer than rubber.
They might be expensive, but you’ll never look back
I have texture issues; one is with condoms. I tolerate them, but if I can avoid them I will. Plus they can dry out, and I hate the smell, too. I’m glad it works for you, though. That’s awesome!