Me and my bf broke up recently. Outside of actually having sex, we’d always get naked in bed and hold eachother. We would be skin to skin something about it always brought me crazy peace and felt like we were exchanging energy. There’s something about our intimacy that neither of us had never felt from anyone else. The sexual chemistry was at 100% with us. But as well as sexual chemistry it felt like we were (sounds stupid) but spiritually connected too. This skin to skin might be one of the things i miss the most. I crave it right now and i’m not sure what to do.
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There are cuddling therapy places.
tell him this, and set up boundaries , bet he feels the same most likely. don’t let him wait to long. If you’re connected, someone will come to him for his comfort. suggest really being honest.
Find a cuddle buddy😉
Some of us crave the spiritual connection the most. What you are describing is true intimacy, being vulnerable and open AND receptive. When it flows both ways there is nothing better. Sex is just an additional expression of this need to feel and share. You’ll be fine if you recognize it for what it is and move forward making smart decisions. I dont think theres a substitute for it other than having a baby or getting a puppy, lol.
Cuddlr app? Also how did y’all not get sweaty. Love is one thing but some hot days I love my SO farther away from me.
It’s a real need for many people. My wife and I have sex about every 3 or 4 days, but we cuddle naked every morning and night, and of course after sex too. I wasn’t like this with other women, she is especially sensual and loves to be touched so I kinda had to get used to it. But now I can’t imagine doing without it. I’m sorry I don’t have an answer for you, but I hope you find another love to go skin to skin with.