I’m a 21 y/o bisexual trans man. I met up with a guy (20 cis man) from tinder for the first time a few nights ago. We talked, smoked, listen to music, and watched some tv. Yada yada, I was sucking his dick and getting into it and he was pushing my head down (and I had drank a little bit earlier that night) and before I could stop it I threw up on his dick. I just stopped and he asked if I was okay. I told him what happened and apologized. He said it was okay and got me some paper towels. He said I was doing a good job. I tried to laugh about it and said it just meant he has a big dick. I finished “the job” and he drove me home. He said it was his first time meeting up with someone on tinder and he was happy he did. As I said this was a few nights ago, so yesterday I just asked how his weekend was going and still haven’t heard anything. I don’t think either of us are looking for something serious, but he seems like an interesting person and we got along well and like a lot of the same things. There’s also an event that’s happening soon I want to go to that I’d almost certainly see him if I went and I don’t want it to be awkward. I’d like to be able to get to know him better. I might send him some art I made that he asked to see or just be straight up and say “i hope me throwing up on your dick didn’t scare you off LOL”. idk, any input would be appreciated
TL;DR: threw up on tinder guy’s dick and haven’t heard back since
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I would say, send him the latest option you suggested. He didn’t seem scared. Just act like it’s pure dedication! Because it kinda is.
However, these casual hookups can also end like this. With one not interested in the other for WHATEVER reason. Usually you don’t find out why, and that’s ok. You don’t need to know. Just didn’t work out for one of the two. That’s all the info you then need.