I have aspergers, i’m on the higher functioning side so it only really affects social ques and empathising/understanding others, i can act how i think i should react, but otherwise i dont know how to feel and act in that situation. empathy issues pretty much.
the problem i’m having right now is understanding the problems with sex with my partner. for context i love getting her off, be it from ass-play, fingering, eating her out, literally anything I can do to make her finish, I love it, this usually end up with her legs going numb anywhere from 5-30 mins and thats why i’m making this post.
I rarely ever get to that point so i can’t understand it too well, she has voiced that she enjoys it a lot but would like to be able feel her legs after. and i guess it sounds dumb asking why its hard to understand that, but its really confusing for me, experiencing pleasure intense enough to make me unable to walk would make me want it all the time. i have been a little weak in the knees once, but that was minor so i didnt really understand her level of it.
sorry if this has been babbling on to long, but men and women of this subreddit. could you help me understand?
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Honestly, having to deal with numb legs sounds absolutely awful.
Have you ever had a part of your body fall asleep and go numb? I don’t know about you, but it’s not what I’d describe as a “fun” experience. It’s not exactly the same, but that’s probably as close to understanding her feelings as you’re going to get with something you (may have) experienced
Once the orgasm is done and the fun is over I want to be able to go about my business and if my damn legs are numb for 30mins that would be extremely annoying and at times certainly not worth the orgasm. Hope that helps! Good luck!