Sorry for the maybe imperfect english, not my first language. Hey gang, so I (24M) just received my first blowjob and… I have questions.
I’ll preface this by saying that my partner is pretty experienced, having given blowjobs to over two dozen men. I, on the other hand, have only seen blowjobs performed in porn and have heard men generally praise them as a very satisfactory sexual act.
I don’t know what I imagined, but I always thought a blowjob would just feel like being enveloped in a bobbing, flesh pocket. No teeth, unless you’re doing it wrong, is what I’ve always heard. And while the easy assumption here would be to go “yeah she’s probably just bad”, I don’t know. When I think about it, factoring in her experience and just actually thinking about the logistics of a mouth, what was I expecting? Where would the teeth go? Are all (regular) blowjobs like this and just nobody says so? I even tried with a banana (funny, I know) myself and realized there is no way I could do it with no teeth at all without opening my mouth super wide. Now every time I watch porn I’m wondering how are they not grating them, especially with those porn dicks.
I’m not that big, to be clear, average length and maybe slightly above average girth at most, that’s why all this got me thinking that maybe all regular folks blowjobs are like this, and I’ve just been lied to by porn about another thing.
To be clear, it’s not a jarring amount of teeth, like she wasn’t grating it or anything. But it was a constant, “can’t help but feel it”, light contact. It definitely worked against the pleasurable part of the experience and I definitely wasn’t in la la land like the way most men describe or look like receiving blowjobs.
So yeah, I would like to ask all the regular folks here, throat goats and sexperts aside, honestly, are blowjobs an inherently minorly teethy experience all along or was my first time just with someone who has blown dozens of men yet nobody told her she’s doing it wrong?
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Bigger you are or the smaller her mouth is, or both, the more teeth youll get.
Does depend on the girl – and girth!! I’m very thick so i usually get a bit of that, yes
It’s why I don’t love them to be honest. It’s not like I will refuse but the teethyness often times makes be uncomfortable and I’m not able to cum. If we aren’t doing intercourse, I prefer handjobs.
I always thought I was good at giving bjs because the two exs who raved about them were 5-6in. The guy I’m dating now I hate that I’m not able to give him great bjs because he’s 7.5in and I keep accidentally having teeth get in the way. So it could be that you’re bigger than her past partners
As a woman, I’ve only had one that was too girthy for my mouth. With him, I just licked and sucked his head while my hand worked the rest. I do have a very small mouth, and I have TMJ so my jaw does not open very far either. When I’m going down on a guy I always kinda cover my teeth with my top lip, and for my bottom teeth I flatten and stick my tongue out, so there’s no tooth contact there either. (This also allows me to lick and suck at the same time, which makes the BJ feel even better!) Maybe you could have her try that if you’d want to try again.
When I go down on my partner, who has I would say average length and girth (Around 6 inches long? Not sure how girthy) I always accidentally touch with teeth. I try to be really careful but it’s hard to avoid. I find that certain angles and positions are much better for this. I can more easily take his penis if he lays down on the bed, and I lay perpendicular to him so that I’m facing his side. His penis goes into my mouth and can avoid most of my teeth. It also depends if we are getting rough because if he jams it in, then it’s really not my fault if he hits my teeth, haha.
Try out some different positions and angles. You can also try having her just work on the head of your penis and use her hands on your shaft.
Main rule: no teeth! Obviously she’s not that experienced in bj.