I can’t orgasm – am I neurodivergent?

I have seen and read a lot of material on neurodivergence that I relate to, but as an academically high-achieving female I don’t know that this was ever massively focused on. I am also queer, having been in relationships with women and men and currently unsure as to how I would label myself. I think I’m quite an anxious person and sometimes scratch e.g. my neck when I am stressed to the point where I have scabs, but I don’t know if this has another root.

Basically, I’m 24 and never had an orgasm despite lots of positive sexual experiences with short and long term partners (and myself !!) where I’ve been turned on and mentally and physically stimulated, which were pleasurable but I have never in any situation achieved that “climax”. While I’ve somewhat accepted this, I’m now curious as to why this might be, and it is making me lean more and more into this suspicion. Does anyone have any experience with this ???? I feel so lost and alone, and have no idea where to turn.

edit: am not on any long term medication currently !!