Do you still enjoy having sex with your husband after all the years?

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1. Uh yes definitely. If anything it’s gotten better & better. We try new things & broaden our interests as time goes on. I would rather have sex with my husband for the rest of my life instead of a random stranger.

2. Yes! When you’ve been w someone a long time (17 years here) sometimes it’s regular, sometimes it’s mind blowing, sometimes it’s a quicky but all the time I enjoy it. It’s nice to have someone who knows what you like and vice versa and wants to make sure you get off. My husband has pretty much mastered his tongue game as well so 🤤

3. More than enjoy it, we have a deeper connection than we have ever had.

   I don’t wish I was with anyone else for a multitude of reasons… also do you know how many people have cooties haha.

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4. It’s my favorite pastime. Like, truly. Would spend all day doing it. Instead I have to settle for nightly or nap time on the days he works nights. I’m 32, he’s 34. We have 4 kids and been married 12 years together 13 in December. Hands down the best I’ve had and it continues to get better with time.

5. Yes. I don’t want anyone else.

6. It just keeps getting better imo.

7. First question you ask yourself is, do you love your husband.

   If it’s ‘affair’ you’re thinking of…DON’T do it. Speaking as someone who had an affair (insert disgust here) it was not the way to fix what was missing. Leave your husband before having an affair.

   If it’s truly another person you want, you need to figure out ‘do you want a new husband or a thrill-f&ck’. If it’s the thrill, please include your husband in the fantasizing. Swinging? Threesome? You need to sort it out.

8. Hell to the yes.

   Had a great round this morning.

9. Yesyesyes!!

   I love the “same penis forever” club. Honestly our sex has never been better, we try new things all the time, we have sex almost every day still. We let our kink out all the time, and if it wasn’t for me being with him all these years I’d never be able to let myself be so comfortable trying new things.

   We have toys that we use to simulate a 3 sum or whatever, so I have no desire to have sex with someone else. I feel like the sex is only going to get better between now and us being too old to get it up anymore lmao

10. 15 years and it only gets better. In quality, in quantity, in communication and in comfort. It’s a purposeful investment from each of us.

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12. I love my husband, but to be honest I would like a open marriage.

13. Oh, yes.

    My husband is the absolute love and lust of my life, and what we share is truly next level.

    Our lovemaking is simultaneously everything that the movies, songs, and books have always hinted at while being so very different than what I ever expected or imagined.

    It’s intense, nuanced, ecstatic, intimate, exciting, needy, playful, vibrant, stimulating, comforting, and real.

    It’s just so much fun and so deeply connective at the same time.

    I utterly crave him, and our erotic and romantic intimacy just keeps becoming MORE.

14. Absolutely. It’s been 29 years and it just gets better. There’s nothing better than being with the person you trust, respect, and love; and have for years.

    We know each other. Because we know, trust, and respect, there is security and peace.

    We can talk. We can play. We aren’t uncomfortable with any subject. We know ourselves and each other. There is absolute freedom and that leads to a lot of pleasure.

15. I’m so glad that for most of you your married sex life is gratifying.

16. I absolutely wouldn’t want to with anyone else. Sounds terrible, honestly lol

    I adore my husband and am very HL. I’m literally down whenever as long as I’m not super sick. He is very loving and generous and I love that emotional connection we get from it.

17. There are obviously attractive people all around the world but the idea of another man besides my husband touching me makes me feel ill.