Dudes, are you just “excited” all the time when you’re with your girl?

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1. Well, it is common if you meet once in a while. Yes. But if you’re someone who live together, if he’s that excited all the time with you, marry him.

2. I think I was constantly aroused when around my wife for the first 15 years together. Now I only need to slightest provocation but am not always at half salute.

3. Honeymoon phase? Like, are you in the first 6 months-1 year of your relationship? Also, are you guys younger? When I was like.. let’s call it 15-25, I was basically a walking dick-delivery system for whoever my girl counterpart happened to be at the time

4. No, your boyfriend is quite odd

5. When I was your boyfriends age I was typically similar especially when I hadn’t seen my girlfriend in a while.

6. That stopped after about month 4, but I would say that’s pretty normal.

7. Uh, no. Maybe when I was a teenager? But not for a while, no.

8. It just means he likes you but I think you knew that

9. It means that you’re really important to him

10. Move in together and see how the situation develops a couple months in.

11. Nearly 40 and at least 50% of the time I’m this way around my wife. Other 50% the kids are around.

12. Yup, it happens

13. Life is more fun when it is not predictable. You never know what happens but Hope/confidence can go a long way. This goes for talking to someone you love.

14. Only in the early stages when she’s still novel.

15. Enjoy the honeymoon period while it lasts.

16. I dated the girl of my dreams(at the time) for 2 years and was always aroused around. My feelings and affection for her never faded in those 2 years. I’ve never felt that way about anyone before or since. I’m sure she found it annoying. I did my best not to bother her, but I just wanted her all the time. I’ve not felt so good in years. Quite sad at times, really. I adored her more than anyone I’ve ever known. I don’t think she recognized my love for her. I sometimes wonder if she’s found what she wants in life…

17. Lucky girl!

18. More like relaxed, happy, and comfortable (and flirty lol)

19. I see all kinds of answers here but for me yeah, all the time. It’s not even excitement or love, it’s just physical closeness with an attractive woman that makes you kind of half hard or hard. It’s just our dicks thinking something could happen as soon as we get a hug or something. I was with a girl for 6 years, lived together for 2 and I was like that whenever we watched a movie together and every night before falling asleep.

20. Yes!

21. Early 20s, new relationship, I’m assuming you’re pretty attractive. This all checks out. Yeah, he’s constantly thinking about and anticipating smashing you. Give it some time and he’ll calm down.

22. I experienced the same when i was with my first girlfriend. for me at least, it was because she was perfect for me at the time. that lasted for 2 years without changing until we went our separate ways due to different life goals.

23. Only with one partner I have ever had. Don’t even have to be near her. My body got(and still gets) excited just getting seeing her name pop up when she messages me. And this is with me having known her for a very long time.