I m with my gf for past 4 years, its was on-off relationship. But we r together from past 1 year.
It is more of a long distance relationship. We do meet once every 2 week though.
But from a past few months, she really turned cold, like we do talk nd share stuff but when i share some things she is like eh, i dont care. If we have a fight, she knows she is wrong she doesnt admit and instead says she doesnt wanna talk about it. End of discussion.
Due to this, i started talking to other girls. I met people on bumble and we talked for hrs. I shared things with her.
I also talk to few other girls but its mostly sexting nd stuff. I havent done anything directly with anyone it was all virtual.
The thing is I dont feel anything wrong in this. I read so many stories here and i always thing people set so many boundaries and here I am not feeling any regret in doing this.
And ik its difficult to believe but i also love my girlfriend.
Idk what to di
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The reason you’re not feeling regret after doing something you definitely shouldn’t have, is because the relationship is dead. It sure sounds dead. Why hang onto it?
Ofc you don’t feel bad, you feel justified in being cruel to her because you feel she is cruel to you. And you think it’s ok to be bad if someone else is bad. Where a lot of people would just leave instead, and don’t do the bad thing. You can’t control other people’s actions, but you can control your own. So you either choose to be a petty and vindictive person, or you choose to have integrity and values and leave the relationship.
That’s not emotionally cheating, that’s just cheating and you probably don’t care because you feel like she doesn’t care about you. It’s pretty obvious that you two should break up
You two are just playing a game of who can be the cruelest to who and you need to cut it out now before it gets more vicious and you both get seriously hurt. Relationships fizzle out sometimes for no reason and people change, cut your losses and move on for sure
It doesn’t matter whether it’s virtual or not it’s still cheating. If you are unhappy in the relationship you should talk to her and/or leave. Cheating is not okay and stop justifying it. Also you should feel bad about what you’re doing. It’s dishonest and one of the most hurtful things you can do to your partner.