Hello. I have a wife. She is 36.
I am 38.
She has a collegue in musical shool. He is 46. They do performances together.
Her colleague is divorced, alcoholic.
Problem I see is that he randomly calls my wife and speaks about personal topics, like his dating, his opinions on his previous/current girlfriends etc.
I dont like that. I think that their communication should be more proffesional and work orientated.
He is also an alcoholic, her previous girlfriend left him for agressiveness.
I told my wife that she should communicate more professional with him and leave personal things aside.
My wife said that there is nothing wrong for them to communicate like this because she wants a good relationship with him.
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What do you think?
4 comments
It sounds like she’s friends with her colleague…what’s the issue here?
I think they sound like friends and you sound jealous and judgemental.
People do befriend their colleagues, it’s not always strictly work/professional. What’s the problem?
Get your own single friend. See if she still has that opinion